I realized
something today. Stupidity costs. I know - It’s basic, but I am a basic guy so
stick with me here.
I understand
that all costs in life aren’t directly correlated with stupidity like when I
purchase a sandwich it costs money, but it isn’t a stupid decision. When my car tires wear down and I need to
purchase new ones, they cost money and that isn’t a result of my
stupidity. There are costs that are
associated with living, and then there are costs that are associated with
stupidity. And stupidity always costs
something. The cost might vary depending
on the offense, and the costs aren’t always produced in monetary amounts. But stupidity always costs nonetheless.
Where is this
recent pondering over stupidity coming from, you might be wondering? Or you might be shaking your head in
agreement as you read these words, knowing that I have much experience with
this topic. If advanced degrees in stupidity
could’ve been earned, then I would have earned at least one – a long time ago.
My most
recent awareness into the costliness of stupidity came when my engine
blew. Yup, you read that right. My engine blew. And it wasn’t because it was overused or time
for a replacement. It was a direct
result of my stupidity. And it is going
to cost quite a bit. I have owned a lot
of clunkers in my day, going back to my 1989 Plymouth Voyager Van that was
reconstructed with a varying color of patchwork panels from multiple reckless teenage
accidents. Even that car’s engine never
blew. But the engine of the car that we
purchased 4 months ago while living in Ecuador did.
I will spare
you the many events that led to the final stupid conclusion of my engine
blowing, but there were many. Stupidity doesn’t
just happen, appearing out of thin air, ex nihilo. There are internal and external factors that
cause stupidity to bubble to the surface.
There were many of these factors at work in my situation, causing me to walk down the path
towards stupidity. But, these factors no matter how much they blurred my vision
or made it difficult to see around or through didn’t force me into
stupidity. I had to take the
plunge. I had to cross the line on my
own two feet.
Have you
ever been there? Have you ever found
yourself influenced by an internal or external factor leading you towards stupidity and
then finding it difficult to step back and evaluate the situation with a clear,
stupid free, mind? And then in the end you
commit the stupid action that these factors were guiding you towards. Can you relate?
Back in
Philadelphia my trusty mechanic saved me from many costly stupid mistakes, but
he refused to fly to Ecuador with us, no matter how much I begged, in order to prevent expensive
car damage from occurring.
My trusty mechanic left me alone in a foreign land unable to speak the
language, which was one of the factors that led to my
stupidity. But even without him, there were many chances along the way to escape
the costly stupidity of my engine blowing. I continued moving forward, and I crossed
the line.
It could
have been worse, one might say. Or
another might add, at least you learned something through this process. I listen and nod to those well-meaning
remarks, but I don’t think either of them is where I want to rest my hat.
What do I do
in the wake of my stupidity? There is not a simple answer to that one. An answer that will allow me to sit back, exhale,
and feel good about the stupidity that I just committed. Although I don't have the answer, there have been a couple of thoughts bouncing around in my head since seeing that smoke rise from the car's engine and its wheels coming to a halt. One thought is that I need to examine the
factors that led me into stupidity, and hopefully be on guard against those in the
future. Another thought that has come to mind in
the aftermath of my stupidity is that I need to acknowledge that the burden of responsibility
is upon myself, no matter how influential those factors were. Finger pointing will only cause stupidity to
grow. A third thing that has come to mind is that I need to remind
myself that there is hope, especially after a stupid action takes place. Wallowing in self pity will not help. Hope is essential if the fight against stupidity is to progress. As wisdom continues to grow in this life,
stupidity will diminish. But although hope exists, the reality is that no matter how much stupidity decreases
in this life, it will never evaporate.
Unlike the
water that caused my engine to blow.